A name can't begin to encompass the sum of all her parts. But that's the magic of names, isn't it? That the complex, contradictory individuals we are can be called up complete and whole in another mind through the simple sorcery of a name.

Charles De Lint
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The name is the only thing that allows us to put our whole selves into another person, to be complete in them. A name is not an accurate reflection of the whole person. What makes the name so powerful is that it allows us to be whole in another mind. It’s like a conversation between ourselves and another person, where there are no words involved, only the two of us in conversation.

The best part? We don’t even have to speak in order for it to happen. All we need to do is pick up the phone or send out an email or even just think about sending out our name and letting it drift away on its own.

Source: Dreams Underfoot

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